Before you have to guess ...


Hi,

Some conversations feel easier to put off ... but when those conversations happen for the first time in a crisis, everyone is tired, scared, and guessing.

My mom had a stroke at the dinner table during an impromptu visit when I was in Florida on business. It launched me into an early caregiving role I wasn't ready for.

This week’s reflection is about the conversations families should begin before an aging parent needs more help.

Read it here: https://www.amatterofmagic.com/blog/before-an-aging-parent-needs-more-help-conversations-families-should-start-having#/​

With love,
Trisha

A Matter of Magic

Thoughtful reflections for navigating change, remembering what matters, and creating a life that feels like your own, grounded in Trisha’s decades of experience in health, education, personal growth, and coaching. Her forthcoming book, My Caregiving Essentials, will be released October 20, 2026. Learn more at trishajacobson.com.

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