The Part We Leave Until Last But Really Need First


Hi,

I thought I was going to start this new series at the beginning of the method I’m teaching.

That would have made sense.

But this week, sitting by the lake for the first time in a very long time, I realized I needed to start somewhere else.

At the end.

With the part so many of us leave until last.

The part we may really need first.

You can read about it here:

​https://www.amatterofmagic.com/blog/the-part-we-leave-until-last-but-really-need-first#/​

Here's to the importance for taking an intentional pause just for ourselves,

Trisha

A Matter of Magic

Thoughtful reflections for navigating change, remembering what matters, and creating a life that feels like your own, grounded in Trisha’s decades of experience in health, education, personal growth, and coaching. Her forthcoming book, My Caregiving Essentials, will be released October 20, 2026. Learn more at trishajacobson.com.

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