When helping out becomes caregiving ...


Hi,

At first, you may not call yourself a caregiver.

Perhaps you’re just helping out.

But somewhere along the way, helping can quietly become a role.

And naming that role matters.

This is the next post in my I.C.A.R.E. Series, and it begins with the first step in The I.C.A.R.E. Method:

I — Identify Your Role

You can read it here:

​https://www.amatterofmagic.com/blog/the-icare-series-when-helping-out-becomes-caregiving#/​

Take good care,

Trisha

​www.amatterofmagic.com​

To read the first post in the series, click here: https://www.amatterofmagic.com/blog/the-part-we-leave-until-last-but-really-need-first#/​

To download your FREE Refrigerator Emergency Kit, click here: https://trishajacobson.kit.com/eda736e078​

A Matter of Magic

Thoughtful reflections for navigating change, remembering what matters, and creating a life that feels like your own, grounded in Trisha’s decades of experience in health, education, personal growth, and coaching. Her forthcoming book, My Caregiving Essentials, will be released October 20, 2026. Learn more at trishajacobson.com.

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